Just a few thoughts
Next time it really starts to miss, quickly start pulling wires one at a time from the dist. cap. Carefully with insulated wire pliers or thick dry gloves.
One wire you pull will have little to no effect on the miss and the other 5 will nearly kill the engine. Now you know which cylinder is the culprit and you can start by changing that one plug to a new one. I know you changed them but humour me. (platinum has always worked for me)
Next, pop both ends of one wire at a time and give us the ohm readings for all your wires.
Another thing to do is to disconnect the underhood light and run the engine at night in total darkness, and when it misses you may see an arcing between wires or somewhere else.
If you do narrow it down to one cylinder and the new plug checks out, the wire checks out, then it's possible you have either a failing injector or an injector with debris in the line or body that at random times moves in the fuel flow and plugs it. I have seen this with my Dad's 3.8L.
You could also check and clean your grounds, and as a last resort replace the computer's coolant sensor, not the gauge sensor, as there may be some corellation between the engine missing and the computer adjusting air/fuel for engine warmup. As a last resort, hopefully it's not the computer, but if you can swap a new one to try (friend work at an auto parts shop? ) then I would to rule it out.