I have a 2008 Taurus Limited with about 51,000. I would like to know what is the most I can tow with my car. I looked on the door tag and it says only like 1,000 lbs or something. That is really light. Could I tow this? 1989 Sea Ray 160 Open Bow. 1989 Sea Ray 160 Open Bow What is the most I can tow? Is this going to kill my transmission? What is tongue weight?